Day 23

I'm grateful for Presidents! And the day off that we get to "celebrate". (Actually, Andy believes the holiday was invented so rich kids could have a ski holiday. I think he's right!)

Monday was supposed to be a lovely day with sunshine and warm temperatures.
It rained. And was a bit cold.
But that didn't stop the Highams!!!
We took the kids to the zoo, brunch, then up to Park City to shop for summer clothes for Hawaii!
All of our summer clothes are in the depths of the storage unit so we have to buy new.
Oh darn!
It turned out to be a really fun day even though we were a bit wet and chilled.

My raincoat didn't have a hood so I had to buy this lovely umbrella. Seriously, it IS as ugly as it seems.Alex on the carousel.

Samantha on the carousel.3 monkeys.
Samantha wrote a recipe of her own one day and her sweet daddy thought it would be a good idea to try it out. Ice cream, berries, apples, grapes and chocolate sauce. Andy convinced her to leave out the chocolate sauce (thank you) and it actually was quite tasty!

Never want to do that again!

We went to the mall today to buy something exciting!! SOCKS!! (totally not part of the story, I just wanted to show you how pathetic we are.)
As we walked into the mall we saw a little boy running around crying looking like he lost his family.
So we stopped him and tried to help. He couldn't find his mom and wasn't listening to me very well and kept running off. I stuck with him and tried to take him to the information desk, but finally he spotted his family and ran off.
PHEW!
I thought it would be a good opportunity to sit down with the kids and talk to them about what to do if they ever get lost at the mall.
We sat down in the food court and told them to find a mall worker and tell them that they lost their family and not to panic and run around like that little boy was.
We then practiced memorizing mommy's telephone number so they could tell the information desk the number to call.

Then, something ridiculous and scary happened.
We lost Samantha!!!!
We took the kids to the treehouse to play which is right next to Payless Shoes. Andy and I went into Payless and after about 2 minutes I asked Andy to go check on the kids. He did, he saw them both and chatted with them and then came back to the store. About 2 minutes later I asked Andy to get Alex so I could try some shoes on him. Alex came running and I proceeded to attempt fitting shoes on him (NOT the easiest thing to do!). I noticed Andy pacing back and forth by the treehouse with a worried look. He came into the store and told me he couldn't see Samantha. I left him to pay for the shoes and I went into the women's restroom to check for her. Nothing. We went into a couple of stores. Nothing. Searched all over the treehouse again. No Samantha.
So, we started to freak out a bit.
Andy ran down to the last store we had been at and called me to say she wasn't in there. Then he saw her - sitting on the counter at the information desk. No tears, just sitting calmly.

As Alex and I made our way down to them I got on the floor with her and asked her what happened. I guess we forgot to mention to her that we were just in the shoe store close by and when she couldn't see us or Alex, she figured she was lost! Like a good little girl she found a mom and told her she was lost. The mom helped take her to the information desk where Andy found her a minute later.
Ummmmm, SCARY!!!

It was awful but she did SO great and did exactly what we told her to do, so I was proud. She wanted me to carry her around the rest of the time which I was just fine with!! My sweet princess!
Then we went for pizza and ice cream.
All was fine after that.

Day 22

I love that Alex asked to wash dishes the other day.

I'm not going to say no......I'm not stupid!!
And he did a pretty decent job too!

Day 21

I am grateful today for the church magazine, The Friend.
You see, we didn't get the house that we've wanted and waited for for 4 months!!
Not the end of the world, I know. We just sort of got our hearts set on it and we were under the impression that the bank had signed a contract with us......so we thought we were set.
Those damn short sales.
Those damn banks.

So I've been thinking a lot lately about prayers and how prayers are answered.
Sometimes they aren't answered how we want.
But I KNOW they are answered.
Sometimes not in our time frame.
But the Lord's time frame.
This one is definitely going on the Lord's time frame. I was hoping to be in a home by now.
I was hoping to be in "OUR" home by now.
I love my "stuff". It is comforting to me to be surrounded by the things that I love that we have collected throughout the years.
It's been a bit hard on me not to have those things around me.
Honestly though, we are SOOOOO blessed to have this beautiful home to live in while we look for our home. Andy's parents are angels!!

There was an article in The Friend with some thoughts by Richard G. Scott. I particularly liked this one:
"Be thankful that sometimes God lets you struggle for a long time before the answer comes. Your character will grow; your faith will increase."
I just LOVE that!!
And I'm feeling it!! I will continue to pray for guidance as we look for a new home for our family. And, in the meanwhile, I will be grateful for the wonderful circumstances that we are in right now and how comfortable we are.

I was talking to my sister, Richele, yesterday and she was saying that someday I will look back on this time and I will be settled and happy in a home and I will be grateful my prayers weren't answered and we didn't get the home we wanted at first.
She and Greg thought their life was over when their attempts at in-vitro didn't work. They were so disappointed that their prayers weren't answered.
But guess what??
If their prayers had been answered the way THEY wanted, then we probably wouldn't have sweet Nicole-Baby in our family!!!! Ohhhhh......and how much do we LOVE her!!!!

I have faith. Things will work out like they are supposed to. Heavenly Father will help us find the right home, in the right neighborhood, where the kids can have wonderful friends and grow up right!
I just need to be more patient.
Lessons learned!!

Day 20

I'm grateful for Girls Night Out!!
Samantha and I went to the salon on Saturday for haircuts and then to dinner!


We were goofing off in the car while the car was drinking gas.

Getting her hair washed!!

She sat SO still and was quite serious the whole time. What an angel!

The finished product! I think she looks so much older with her hair blown straight......which is why I plan on keeping it curly most of the time!!

She chose Arctic Circle for dinner. High end, I know!!!
We had a fun night together while the boys were at home having their own fun. I think Andy took pictures of their night, so I'll have to post those another time.
Love you baby girl! Thanks for the fun date!

Day 19

My 3 little ragamuffins playing Uno on a Saturday morning......almost Saturday afternoon.
In their PJs.
Isn't that what awful-weather Saturdays are for?

I also think Saturday mornings are for watching Michael Jackson's This is It.
Which we did this morning.
And Alex exclaimed, "Is Michael Jackson a boy or a girl?".
Perceptive little guy.

Oh, and the kids ROCKED out to MJ. Samantha was pulling some serious moves.
Hilarious and adorable.

Day 18

Alex firmly believes these days that he is a rock star. And for some reason he has a bit of an obsession with Michael Jackson. Not that it's a bad thing - he was the King of Pop, after all!
We have been listening to the Glee soundtracks in the car lately and the kids
are memorizing every song and Alex's favorite lately - though
I sort of hate to admit it, is the Barbara Streisand song Rain on my Parade.
What 4 year old likes a Barbara Streisand song??
Scary, I know.

This was Alex in the car yesterday playing his guitar. I think he needs lessons

By the way, I was at a very LONG stop light, and as soon as it turned green I turned off the camera. Safety first!

Day 17

I am grateful that even though Samantha's birthday is in the summer, her teacher is smart enough to celebrate 1/2 birthdays! Friday was Samantha's half birthday and she was WAY more excited for this than she ever has been for her real birthday!
I think she was just really excited to share it with her school friends and wear the birthday crown and have me come to her school.
I was able to go spend some time at school with her and share her favorite book with her class. We also made a poster with some pictures of her from the past 5 1/2 years. It was so cute to see her cute smiles especially while the class sang happy birthday to her.
Alex loved being there too! He really wanted to stay with his sister all day. Frankly, I wanted him to stay too!

For my cousin Carin and all you other moms out there!

SO TRUE!!!

Day 16

(kind of an old picture, but I just adore her little face in this)

I am grateful for a super insanely sweet little girl who yesterday told me that she wants to go to Haiti to help all the people there.
We have been keeping the kids up-to-date on what has been happening there and every prayer my sweet babies pray "for Haiti". I think it is a great learning experience for them in compassion and helping as much as we can.

Cozy

Do you want to know what I was thinking about this morning? Do ya? (Yeah, probably not, but I know that you are hooked now! I know that you are so curious as to what has been stewing in my mind that you just can't turn away now! Try it, I dare ya! You can't! HA! THAT, my friends, is called an excellent climate-set opening! Learned that in my BYU course! So there!)

So, where was I? Oh yeah, my asinine thoughts, that's right.

This morning I was thinking about pajamas. I wear pajamas a lot. LOVE THEM! Every year for Christmas Eve Andy buys me a new pair of pajamas. For the past 6 or 7 years he has chosen pajamas from Victoria's Secret. I am convinced that his thoughts were as follows:

"Oh la la! Look how lovely these buxom ladies look in their pajamas! Kristi isn't QUITE that stacked, but she does have nice feet.....maybe, JUST maybe, if I buy her these pajamas she will transform into Heidi Klum. Let's give it a shot! CLICK, purchase!"

He must have been massively disappointed the past 7 years.

This year I got pajamas from Costco.

They are very soft though.

(Authors note: These ramblings are the ramblings of a crazy woman and do NOT reflect the attitude or opinions expressed by Andrew C. Higham. At least I don't think so. Do they Andy? DO THEY?????)

Day 15

I am SOOOOO grateful for really stupid people. Tears are running down my face! Haven't laughed like this in ages!!
Thank you www.failbooking.com!

Day 14

I am grateful that Alex decided to help his daddy fold laundry today while his sister is SCREAMING HER HEAD OFF in time-out.
At least one is acting semi-decent right now.
Thanks buddy!!

Day 13

This morning Alex came into bed with me to snuggle at 7.15am. He started rubbing my face and my arm and neck. He then exclaimed, "Mom, I'm going to start calling you Buttercup because your skin is soft like butter."!! Really, I have no idea where he came up with that, but it sure did put me in a good mood for the morning!

Day 12

I don't have a picture....but right now I am loving listening to my mother-in-law busting a gut while watching Home Alone 2. She is FAR more entertaining than the movie. And she is laughing WAY more than the kids do. Comic relief for a Sunday night.

I'm off to do more homework.....sigh.

Day 11

I am grateful I got to babysit this little peanut yesterday (my nephew Caleb)! He is such a sweet baby!
And OH SO good!! He is so laid back which makes him quite the easy baby to babysit.
His hair looks magnificently red in these pictures, but it isn't quite that red in person.
Yes, I do have to resist nibbling on his cheeks 24/7!!

Day 10

I am grateful my daughter can spend a whole week at school learning about penguins.......
Oh wait.....no I'm not!!!
Seriously....a whole week.....learning about penguins!!
Aren't there more important things to learn about?
Like letters? Numbers? Whales?
Well, at least she brings home cute pictures.
And the other day she was eating something I told her it looked good....
She then told me that she could spit it in my mouth like a penguin and feed me.
Nasty, but clever.

MOSTLY though, I am grateful today we decided to just GO FOR IT and bought tickets to Hawaii!!!!
We are going to Maui in March for a week.
The kids have never been and I'm sure they'll love it!
I love it. Andy loves it.
I'm going to drink POG until I turn orange.

Day 9

I am grateful for Andy. AND I love him! It's a double for the day!
Andy has been such a prince lately in helping me finish my independent study class.
I know he doesn't enjoy it. But he does it to make me happy.
How great is that!?!
Thanks babe! Only a little bit left to go!

Day 8

We LOVE fresh juice! This morning we had grapefruit, Cara-Cara oranges, and Blood Oranges in our juice.
Usually we don't have the blood oranges, but we bought some at Sunflower Market yesterday and love the way they taste and the color they add to the juice.
In my opinion, Cara-Cara oranges are the best oranges for juice. We buy them in huge bags at Costco and go through them very quickly.
The kids can drink 2 glasses of the juice each and so we have to make a lot to satiate everyone.
Fresh, healthy, delicious! Oh, and beautiful!

Day 7

Today, I love BACON!!!!!!
That's all.