Tuesday, December 29, 2009

CAUTION: Only look if you are prepared to handle the cuteness!!!!!!


SERIOUSLY??? HAVE YOU EVER IN YOUR LIFE SEEN A CUTER FACE?????
This, my friends, is my freakishly adorable husband when he was 3 1/2.
I fell in love with this picture as soon as I saw it and I can't stop looking at it!!
So, I thought I'd share it with everyone so they can take part of this precious face. I love his sweet expression and how he is holding Sylvester! I wish I could go back in time and snorgle his little face to death!!!

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Christmas Day 2009

MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM THE HIGHAMS


AND FROM RICHELE....
(Hey, if she is going to take a picture like that with my camera, it's going to get posted!!)


Thursday, December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas!

We fell behind this year, so I guess this is our excuse that we are "keeping up with the times" and taking our Christmas card electronic.

Merry Christmas! We hope you are enjoying the season as much as we are. It took a while to get the Christmas lights on the house working (busted outlet outside), but once we did, the kids faces just lit up! We were under a lot of pressure, as all of the neighbors’ lights were up and running, but now we are keeping up with the Joneses.

The kids have loved the snow so far this year. Even though it’s all crusty and frozen right now, they head out every day. Last night when they came in, Samantha’s mittens were totally soaked through - you know that means they had a good time. Or we need to buy better mittens. Speaking of which, the kids’ snow outfits are hilarious. They finally outgrew their last set, though we managed to squeeze 3 good winters out of them. Trying to build on our past success, their new snow clothes are about 3 sizes too big. Snow stuff is already pretty bulky, so it’s pretty shocking that they can move.

Samantha started Kindergarten this fall, and loves it. She also loves her teacher Mrs. Lemon, and thinks that it’s hilarious that she has the same name as a piece of fruit. Her teachers say that she is a perfect angel in class. We’d be a bit suspicious about that, but Kristi was her primary teacher for a while, and she was always quiet, attentive, and did a great job at participating. It’s a lot of fun to help her with her homework. It’s marvelous to see the joy in her face as she figures out how to sound out a new word. She does get easily frustrated, especially when she’s tired, so at those times it’s best to just move on to something else, but she loves finding her sight words everywhere we go, and is obsessed with counting things. It’s amazing what kind of knowledge she can bring home from school. The other night while daddy was watching Food Network (SHOCKING), someone was making a Yule Log. “What’s that?” Samantha asked? “It’s a Yule Log,” daddy replied. Samantha then launched into a lecture about the history of the Yule Log and its German origin! She threw it out very casually. Not surprisingly, we’re probably in a lot of trouble in the future – Kristi has seen the boys on the playground absolutely mooning after Samantha as she arrives at school. “Hiiii, Samantha.”

Alex started pre-school at the same place that Samantha went last year. He already loved Teacher Nicole from having met her many times he had met her before, so he had no trouble fitting right in. He is less than an inch shorter than Samantha, and depending on the day, might outweigh her by a pound or two. With a September birthday, he’s just about the oldest kid in class, and he towers over some of the kids by a full head. (We STILL get asked if they are twins – we thought it was just the double stroller they used to ride in.) Alex will undoubtedly be a better student than Samantha. I’m sure a lot of it is the benefit that he gains from the fact that she is constantly practicing, so he can pick up that residual knowledge, but he just absorbs things faster. While Samantha was practicing her reading (most of the sentences were repetitive), she struggled to read one of the new words in each sentence. On the second try, as she was working to get it out, Alex prompted her with the right word, kindly not vocalizing the “duh” that was plain in his tone. Alex struggles to speak a bit, in terms of clarity and enunciation, so he goes to speech therapy twice a week. Once is at the public school (free – yay!), and the other time is with a local speech pathologist (pricey – boo!). After his first trip to the speech pathologist (Paige), he was talking about what he thought of paper. “Paper?” daddy asked. “Yes, Paper.” Read through that a couple of times (out loud might help), and you’ll crack up when it clicks.

Kristi is happy (Alert – Extreme Understatement detected!) to have both kids in school, even if the stars only align for a couple of hours at a time a couple of times a week. She’s taken advantage of Andy’s amazing corporate discount at Gold’s Gym, you can now find her in the Cardio Cinema on Tuesday and Thursday mornings. She is currently practicing to be a taxi driver as she shuttles the kids to pre-school/school/’peech (one of Alex’s struggles is words that start with “S”)/whatever. We managed to sell our home in Pleasant Grove in October, and Andy’s parents have been kind enough to loan us their home in Orem until we can find a new home. Not knowing where we’ll end up, we’ve chosen to keep Samantha and Alex in their same schools, so Kristi’s schlepping kids around the valley a little further than you might normally expect. Too bad Orem is awful at clearing snow from the roads. To make sure that she doesn’t have too much free time, Kristi has decided to start a cookie catering business. She’s perfected her own cookie recipe, and there’s just enough action to keep her busy, between her local customers and some fans as far away as New York (it’s amazing how well those vacuum sealer things work).

Andy finished his MBA in August, and is just glad to not have to worry about it anymore. Work hasn’t changed much – he’s writing this on a flight to New York. Thank goodness for his tiny netbook and complimentary upgrades on Delta. It appears that he is in danger of beginning to refer to himself in the 3rd person – perhaps he’ll have to try to make the jump to professional sports. Andy is very grateful to have such a wonderful family, and generous parents who are letting us crash in their home until we can get a bank to finally move on a short sale. He won’t tell you too much about what he think about banks, as this isn’t really the place, and he happens to work for one, but suffice it to say we won’t be sending them any of Kristi’s cookies at Christmas. The good news is that we have a bank considering our offer on a home in American fork, and we are supposed to find out if they have accepted it in5 weeks or so. The bad news is that by writing that sentence, he has now totally jinxed the deal.

Have a Merry Christmas!

Andy, Kristi, Samantha & Alex

Monday, December 21, 2009

Yum

Saturday night we got together with friends at Forage Restaurant. Let me just say, I haven't stayed up that late in YEARS!!!!! But it was totally worth it to hang out with friends we rarely see and eat amazing food. The whole meal took us 3 1/2 hours to eat and then we hung out and chatted with the chef for a while. Lucky for us, the incredible chef, Bowman Brown is the brother-in-law of our friends and so we had around 13 courses of delicious food. It was a lot to experience and I ate many new things. I've never had rabbit before.....who knew it was so good!!??!! Brandon, Claire, Matt, and Angela were in town for their sister's wedding and their older brother Nathan also joined us. This was the first time we met Angela and we were so happy to be able to get to know her before she marries Matt in January! It's good she passed approval because we adore Matt and want the best for him!! Now we get to firm up plans to go to San Francisco for the wedding in January! Yippee! I'm not the brightest and totally forgot to take a picture of all of us, but trust me, we looked good!
Thanks for the invite Richards clan! We love you guys!

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Who dat?

I'm not quite sure what has happened to me. I sometimes don't even recognize myself in the mirror. I used to be a happy and optimistic person with bright eyes and a great outlook on the future. I can't find that person anymore. She has vanished. In her place is a woman with a few gray hairs and wrinkles around the eyes and a crabby disposition. I think it's motherhood. I am, by nature, a peacemaker. I can't STAND to fight with Andy and if we do have a little fight, it is resolved very quickly. So why am I constantly yelling and fighting with my children? Why do they get on my nerves SO very quickly? Where did they learn what buttons to push with me?? Because they are the only two people on this earth who can really push me over the edge. I despise yelling at them. I despise disciplining them. Yet most of my days are filled with reprimands and punishings and a very unhappy momma.

How hard is it to get shoes on and get buckled in the car? Why must I ask 10 times?
Am I your cruise director or your mom? Why do you expect me to tap dance for you 24/7?
You make the mess - you clean it up!

Is it just me? Is it just my house that sounds like this? Will I ever get my sanity and sunny disposition back? Will Andy let me get Botox around my eyes?

I will admit though, the one shining star I have in my life is my marriage. THANKFULLY, I married a dreamboat who adores me and takes such good care of me. He understands when I need a break and is ready and willing to step in to allow me that break. When the house seems to crumble in on me I can look forward to him coming through the door and hugging me and, in that moment, all is right.

Except right now......he is in New York on business. I need a hug.

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Wherein I spew much information nobody cares about.

House update:
We have 2 offers into the bank on 2 great homes. If the bank could just hurry it up then we could get working on the papers and get into a home....but that just isn't how short sales work these days!! One home is in American Fork just 1 block south of the Mt. Timpanogos Temple. It is huge and lovely! It is located in a cul-de-sac and the kitchen is RIDICULOUSLY large--which is great for us! It only has 3 bedrooms and 2.5 bath (in 5000 sq ft!), but that is enough for us for now and someday we could finish the basement. We are really hoping for this house. Overall, it is our favorite.
The other home is in Orem just off of 1600 North. It is in a great Ivory Homes subdivision. The kitchen is really weak, but the basement isn't finished and we could possibly build another kitchen downstairs for me and my cookies. We love the upstairs of this home which includes a HUGE loft, 3 bedrooms and a bathroom. It is perfect for the kids area. The master bedroom is on the main floor so the upstairs could be dedicated just to the kids!

There is good and bad to both homes and both areas, but right now I think we'd be happy with anything!! We are going through them both again tomorrow with the expert eyes of my mom and dad to help us envision things and/or point out issues etc. I am looking forward to seeing both homes again.

Kid update:
Kids are here. They are growing. They throw tantrums. They make me laugh. They make me cry. They are excited for Christmas. They talk A LOT! And they sure are learning a bunch at school. They are smart little munchkins!

Kristi update:
The cookie business is going fairly well--considering I don't advertise and haven't updated the website like I want. I just don't have the time to do any of that and I really don't want to do too much until we get into our own home and I can really set up the business. Plus, I'm wicked busy right now trying to finish up my BYU course. I really SHOULD NOT have signed up for this class. Lesson learned, now let's just get it over with!!!

Andy update:
Andy is a enjoying his shorter commute. Not that it was horrible before, but now that he lives and works in Orem it can sometimes only take him 6 minutes to get to work! I LOVE it because if I have an issue like, say, oh, a screaming tantrum little girl, I can call him and he can help me deal with it. AND he brings me lunch! What a champion! I am certain he is still enjoying his freedom from school and sits down to play video games to celebrate. He has a couple of business trips coming up and a possible trip to Israel to visit a new client in January. I wish the kids and I could come along! I love Israel!

Pet update:
I flushed Merrie the fish last week. He was looking uber sick and I didn't want him to suffer any longer. And I got sick of taking care of him. The kids waved good-bye as he swirled down the toilet. If you can't tell, we weren't too broken up about it. Phil--the free carnival fish--is alive and kicking and creates a lot of dirty water for me to clean. Chewy still keeps me happy! I love that little bird. He cracks me up and is a good little pet for me. No one else really likes him too much, but that's because he bites everyone but me. Little stink!

Life is good. We are grateful to have a nice home to live in while we house hunt. We are looking forward to Christmas and spending time with family. Andy's family won't be coming out this year but we did get to see them at Thanksgiving.
I just got a new gym membership and now I plan on working out twice a week when both kids are in school and I am very excited! I worked out for 2 hours today and it felt really good. I probably won't feel so good tonight.....but oh well!
I LOVE MY FAMILY!
(and I love this hideous picture of us on a Sunday drive!)